Monday, March 22, 2021

कुछ सिखा के गया

 

A two-month-old Labrador was abandoned. Left barking in the Delhi summer sun. 8 yrs.’ ago he came to us and became a member of the family.

He considered the lady of the house as his GOD.  He constantly followed her in the house. Aligned his position so that he got a constant line of sight of his GOD. He revered her. In the morning slowly tiptoed near the bed and waited quietly. If she was asleep, gently went back without waking her up. He kept doing this. Once awake, he kept his head on her lap as if to say good morning. He studied and knew body language and signs to perfection even more than other members of the family!! He knew when she was tired and when she was in a bad mood and would try to compensate for everything.

He spoke without speaking. He heard without a word being uttered. He listened to what we thought and every time he was right. He miraculously could feel when we were about to finish our dinner, to come near the dining table to ask for his bite. He knew for sure, with the evening tea, his two biscuits would be there in the tray.  He waited for his bite. Never pounced or grabbed. Used his snout to poke and grab attention if we were busy reading newspaper or not talking to him.  

An epitome of goodness, kindheartedness and jovial in nature. Playful and loving. Always with a balanced and calm temperament, he tolerated all the nonsense heaped on him by playing kids. Never intimidated them. He maintained calmness at all times without getting provoked or perturbed.  Never ever complained and never ever demanded. Never showed any unhappiness. Never collected unhappy stamps and kept dragging. Never displayed his ego. Never showed any hatred. Always a happy dog. Dennis.

Suddenly last three months he started bleeding from his nose. After many doctors and hospitals, we knew that it may be a nasal tumor. He calmly suffered the onslaught of medications . At the most he used to complain to his GOD, about me when I administered medications by running towards her and keeping his head on her lap. But he knew. He knew his days were numbered. We consulted the doctors but he was certain. He knew he had to go. Suddenly he started becoming aloof. Earlier he used to roam in the house at his will. Not anymore. He started spending his time outside the main gate of the house as if indicating that his way is different. Even if we brought him in our house, he chose a corner and looked at us as if he was no longer part of our family. Last few days he refused food and water. Imagine a Labrador refusing to eat!! Gone were the days when his eyes used to gleam when we said ‘biscuit खाएगा?’ as if it was too trivial.   The end came and he graciously accepted it.

He showed what Bhakti marg is.

He showed what good temperament means. 

He showed how to dissolve the ego.

He showed that there is a time when one has to go. Without clinging without a whimper.

He showed how to live a happy life.

Even if I try to emulate some of the superlative qualities which he displayed, I would be a better person. We seldom come across a pure soul with higher conscience. I have experienced a soul which has higher conscience. I have experienced a pure soul. I am blessed.





 



12 comments:

Shekhar said...

Wow! Truly exceptional! Very sad to see him go. You folks must be feeling the loss of a family member.

Unknown said...

Brought tears to my eyes

KShar said...

So well said. Captured all that us humanely possible. Just day before we were talking about him during lunch. The trigger was curd rice. Even I tried to imagine his position from my perspective and often wondered he is already there were our scriptures want us to be. Complete surrender is what one can see him. He sure had desires and cravings but he never persevered or demanded. But his looks and gestures were enough. Not the smartest of his kind but his devotion and sincerity and ultimate simplicity were far better and superior to some game playing smartness.
Will sure miss you always. Pl forgive us lesser mortals for hurting you and not understanding you many times.
Adieu.

Unknown said...

We have trouble letting go, but we have to learn it from these higher souls

Madhusudan Mulik said...

Oh, very sorry for him and you all. You said it correctly, they are really higher souls

Unknown said...

Amazing isn't it? Even the mute can teach us so much. One just needs an open mind. No barriers and limitations can contain a pure soul. They reflect the Spirit in them without saying anything.

Unknown said...

Gone through same feelings when we lost our pomerian.Very Sad.

Unknown said...

Sanjay

Unknown said...

Such a touching tribute and so aptly described, the journey of Dennis and the values he cherished.

Neeraj Gupta said...

Even if I try to emulate some of the superlative qualities which he displayed, I would be a better person. We seldom come across a pure soul with higher conscience. I have experienced a soul which has higher conscience. I have experienced a pure soul. I am blessed....
Sir I quote your words...

They complete us....
Regards

Durgesh said...

A devoted friend and beloved pet such as Dennis will always hold a special place in your heart. He is gone but never forgotten, sir.

Vikram Waman Karve said...

Was moved to tears - you are really a nice person to rescue and look after an abandoned dog

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